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✨ Feeling Stuck? Flip a Coin! 🪙

Updated: Oct 15

Heads: Go for it, Tails: Overthink it later. 🪙



We’ve all been there: stuck in decision-making limbo, endlessly weighing the pros and cons of our options. Whether it’s choosing between two jobs, where to go on holiday, or something as simple as what to have for dinner, sometimes it feels impossible to pick the “right” option. The next time you’re in this dilemma, why not try a playful and surprisingly effective method — flipping a coin!


This might sound overly simplistic, but flipping a coin or rolling a dice can offer more than just random chance. Each side or number corresponds to a choice you’re considering. But the real magic happens in the moments before the coin lands.


Why It Works


When the coin is in the air, or the dice is rolling, notice how you feel. Are you secretly rooting for one outcome over the others? This split-second instinct can reveal your true desires. Often, when faced with a decision, the options that don’t happen are the ones we realise we wanted the most. If you feel relief when the coin comes up heads, or disappointment when it lands tails, you’ve already got your answer — it’s not about the coin; it’s about how you feel deep down.


A Personal Example: The Football Match that Changed My Life


I once made a life-changing decision based on a football match (Spain vs Italy). I told myself, “If Italy wins, I’ll move there. If Spain wins, I’ll stay.” Spain ended up winning, and while the match was thrilling, I found myself oddly disappointed by the result. That’s when I realised — I didn’t really want to stay where I was. My disappointment was a clear signal that I wanted to move to Italy. So I did! Today, I live in Italy and haven’t looked back.


More Than Just a Coin Toss


This method is even more useful if you have several options. Can’t decide between three job offers? Roll a dice! Assign each number to an option and see how you feel when the dice settles. Did you get the job you wanted, or are you disappointed with the outcome? Your gut reaction often knows better than your logical brain in these cases.


It’s About Listening to Yourself


The beauty of this approach is that it helps you tune into your instincts, which are often clouded by overthinking. We spend so much time analyzing every possibility that we forget to listen to what we actually want. A coin toss cuts through the noise and forces you to make a choice — or at least, to reflect on your feelings about each option.


Conclusion


Decisions don’t have to be as hard as we make them. Sometimes, the easiest way to find clarity is to flip a coin, roll a dice, and see where your instincts guide you. Whether you’re dealing with small everyday choices or major life decisions, using this trick can help you break free from analysis paralysis and act with confidence.


So, the next time you’re caught in indecision, let chance take the reins for a moment — and trust yourself to know what’s best.


Have you ever used a coin toss or dice roll to make a decision? What was the result?




💭 How do you usually make tough decisions?

  • Go with my gut feeling 🔮

  • Make a detailed pros and cons list 📋

  • Overthink until I’m exhausted 😅

  • Other (tell us more in the comment section)


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