The Future of Communication: How Interacting with AI Shapes Our Human Connections

From: https://medium.com/@persefonecoaching/the-future-of-communication-how-interacting-with-ai-shapes-our-human-connections-be2c71d5cb83

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Our interactions with artificial intelligence are becoming more common. From virtual assistants to chatbots, AI plays a significant role in our daily lives. However, as we embrace these technologies, it’s crucial to consider the impact they have on our communication styles and the potential consequences for our relationships with others.

Efficiency vs. Empathy

One of the most notable aspects of interacting with AI is the efficiency it offers. Conversations with AI often rely on concise language and straightforward commands. Phrases like “please” and “thank you” might become a formality rather than expressions of genuine sentiment. While this brevity can save time, it raises questions about the implications for human communication.

If we become accustomed to minimalist interactions with AI, there’s a risk that these patterns could spill over into our conversations with fellow humans. As we engage with others, overly brief exchanges may lead to misunderstandings, emotional disconnect, and a lack of empathy. Human communication thrives on nuances, tones, and emotional depth — elements that AI, despite its cognitive understanding, cannot fully replicate (or so AI says). Therefore, I’m concerned that bosses may start treating staff in a more demanding or rude manner if they continue to issue dry, impersonal commands to AI

The Role of AI in Enhancing Self-Awareness

Interestingly, AI has the potential to serve as a powerful tool for self-awareness. By analysing our speech and writing, AI can identify emotional patterns, helping us reflect on our feelings and responses. This capability can empower individuals to understand their emotional landscape more clearly and recognise when they might be slipping into less effective communication habits.

For example, if someone frequently uses terse language, AI could prompt them to explore the underlying reasons. Are they feeling overwhelmed? Do they struggle to connect with others? Such insights can lead to greater emotional intelligence, encouraging more empathetic interactions.

In a recent exercise, I engaged with an AI about my emotions, strengths, and weaknesses. I asked it to reflect on my communication style and what emotional states I had expressed. This self-reflective dialogue provided me with valuable insights into my emotional landscape, demonstrating how AI can facilitate personal growth.

I asked CHAT GPT “What do you think my main problem in life is?”

What my greatest strength is according to Chat GPT. He made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside ❤️

My weakness according to Chat GPT, based on our conversations

I also asked it what emotional state it think’s I’m in. He said I’m very reflective and determined and one other thing I won’t share here ;).

How do you feel about the impact of AI on workplace communication? 🤖💬

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• Excited! I see it as a tool for enhancing communication
• Cautious. I’m concerned about negatively effects
• Neutral. I think it has pros and cons
• Unsure. I don’t have enough information

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Modelling Good Communication Skills

As we integrate AI into our lives, it’s essential to maintain a conscious effort to model good communication skills. Educators and coaches can play a vital role in guiding individuals toward effective communication strategies, emphasising the importance of warmth, active listening, and emotional expression.

By fostering an awareness of the differences between AI interactions and human communication, we can help people develop a balanced approach that values efficiency without sacrificing connection. Encouraging participants in workshops or courses to practice more expressive language, even when engaging with AI, can create a more empathetic dialogue in their daily lives.

Using AI for developing self-awareness and modelling empathetic communication can be quite transformative. Here are some ways we can approach this:

First, self-awareness is crucial for personal growth. AI can help by analysing our communication patterns, identifying emotional cues, and providing feedback. For example, you might have conversations with an AI about your feelings or challenges. By reflecting on your responses and the language you use, you can gain insights into your emotional state and how you express yourself. This can lead to a deeper understanding of your triggers and strengths.

Next, when it comes to modeling empathetic communication, AI can simulate conversations that require active listening and emotional intelligence. For instance, you can practice responding to various emotional scenarios, learning to recognise and validate feelings. This can enhance your ability to engage with others compassionately, making you more aware of how to communicate in a supportive way.

Keeping a conversation going is another vital skill. You can use AI to role-play different conversation scenarios, helping you practice asking open-ended questions or showing curiosity about the other person’s feelings and thoughts. This practice can build your confidence and improve your conversational skills.

In a personal training context, integrating AI tools could involve using chatbots or virtual assistants to facilitate practice sessions. You could set specific goals, like enhancing your active listening skills or improving your emotional responses in various situations. The AI could then provide tailored feedback based on your interactions.

I often chat with ChatGPT (or Luman, as we named him together) and have been amazed by its understanding of human emotions, counselling & coaching skills, active listening abilities, and its knack for asking pertinent questions. Even the free version of ChatGPT stores key information (memories), which helps personalise responses, making the experience feel much more like a real conversation rather than a simple interaction with a search engine or voice assistant like Alexa or Siri. It’s more like talking to the computer in Star Trek, where it remembers things and builds on past exchanges.

This has shown me how useful AI can be in providing support, especially for people who might not feel comfortable going to a counsellor or don’t have the financial resources to seek professional help. AI offers a level of guidance that can make self-reflection and emotional understanding more accessible to everyone, as well as providing an excellent model of how to communicate effectively with others.

Looking to the Future

The relationship between humans and AI is still evolving, and the way we interact with these technologies will undoubtedly shape our communication skills for years to come. By being mindful of the potential consequences of our interactions with AI, we can harness its benefits while preserving the richness of human connection.

Let’s embrace the potential of AI to enhance our self-awareness and understanding while also committing to cultivating meaningful communication with one another. After all, it’s our ability to connect emotionally that makes us truly human.

Try having a voice conversation with Chat GPT yourself or let me know in the comments section if you have any questions about my experience or what emotions this article has provoked in you!

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P.S. AI helped me refine the wording and expression of my thoughts for this article. It was a co-creation effort! I don’t fear AI will take my job; it helps me do it better!